Most painful

I asked my friends about what's the most painful feeling, losing a boyfriend or losing a best friend. Some of them said losing a boyfriend is more painful, some also said that losing a best friend is much more painful, and some said it depends in the situation. But for me what's more painful is when your best friends turned their backs away from you.

Hurt

I may not show it, but it really hurts.

My crush likes someone else

Laughable pain....

I'm peeking

Ohhh...how pitiful of me.

Whenever my crush is near

I'm like this when I'm with my crush. Silently holding a giggle. But if only he knew my heart is having a boxing session with my chest.

Ten reasons why I am the best choice

Ten reasons why I am the best choice

There are more good looking entities, beings, or creatures than me but I can say that I am still the best choice. Why? Here are my reasons:

1.       I know how to cook.

I am the best choice because I know how to cook some delectable dishes for example “Humba.”

2.       I have a deep regard to my parents.

I am the best choice because i have a big respect towards my parents, for me their advices weigh a lot.

3.       I never give up in whatever challenge I confront.

I am the best choice because I am persistent and resilient. Even how many times I fall I always stand up and with a straight face.

4.       I don’t like mess.

I am the best choice because I always keep my place in order and clean.

5.       I am warm.

I am the best choice because when I love I don’t just say it I express it.

6.       I have a life’s vision.

I am the best choice because I always look forward at the future. I never stop until I achieve my greatest dreams.

7.       I don’t like to stay stagnant.

As much as possible I always look for ways that would keep me on track so my mind will always be set on my goal.

8.       I maintain a good balance of pessimism and optimism.

For me being always positive doesn’t work all the time, sometimes being a bit negative will make you see other possibilities.

9.       I understand and support.

I am the kind of person who supports the dreams of my love ones and I always try my very best to understand the person dear to me.

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Want to know what the tenth is? Well come and get me!  

Ten Qualities of My Future Husband

If I were to have a husband I want him to be someone who possesses the following attributes:

1. Knows his purpose in life

A man who knows his purpose in life is a man worth marrying. He will remain confident while pursuing his life’s goals and what drives his soul. 

2. Faithful

A man who is faithful not only to me, but also to God, will make for a great husband. This type of man will value and uphold the vows he made to me on our wedding day.

3. Selfless

A man who puts others before himself and gives a helping hand to those in need is a man I should not overlook. A man who values selflessness will most likely be a loving, supportive husband and father. 

4. Shared life goals

A man who shares similar life goals with me will make for a great husband. Sharing that similarity with me, he will most likely support my efforts in life.

5. Has a so called hard work ethic 

A man who has a hard work ethic is marriage material. He will never give up when working towards his ambitions.

6. Has a good relationship with his family

A man who has a close and loving relationship with his family is a man I want to be with. This type of man knows the importance of family and truly cherishes family time. 

7. Has no unhealthy habits

A man who has a healthy lifestyle is a good husband material. He will serve as a good role model to your future children.

8. A man who laughs with my jokes

For me a man who can laugh even at my corniest jokes is the best person to marry and be with for the rest of my life. 

9. A man who accepts who my friends are

For me a man who can get along with my friends is the type of man who can understand and can accept me for who I am.

10. Finally, I want my future husband to be like the man on the picture below. 

 Do I still need to explain?

friend

Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is.

Jim Morrison

friend

Ten things that make me smile

I am the kind of person who smiles on simple things like;
1.When I see my parents smiling I just can't help but also smile.
2.When I see my little sister so happy to her own achievement in school or to anything that she does.
3.When my sister shares about boys.
4.When I see our house is clean, the floor is well polished, the front, sides, and back yards are clean from any garbage.
5. When I accomplished something.
6. When I see my crush or when I get to think about him.
7. When I eat pandesal with puto and chocolate during mornings and afternoons.
8. When I see my room well organized.
9. When I see happy couples.
10. When I see funny comments on my Facebook page.

My Guiding star

My Guiding star

Here I am laying my back on the grassy ground

Staring up the glittering night skies and

Drawing patterns of your gorgeous image.

I feel the cold breeze caressing my skin

Every touch sends a shiver right through my flesh

But the coldness makes my heart tingle

And my body to crumple.

Now no stars are above me and no wind to shiver me.

The light is off still I see the endless dots

Of the constellation I made just for you

Even in my sleep it is your name I mumble ‘cause

You invaded even my sweetest dreams.

The sky is clear and so bright now

The sun has just risen; its light is bringing warmth to my flesh

And creating an arch on my lips.

My vision is as clear as the day that

Even if the sun would set

And darkness would dominate the sky

My heart would no longer gloom

For your constellation would be there forever

Telling me not to despair

And encouraging me to create a new one.

Ten ways to make my life better

I can make my life better by:

1.       Believing in God.

2.       Living life.

3.       Loving my family more.

4.       Trusting myself more.

5.       Being happier even if I am single.

6.       Being more understanding for my sister.

7.       Keeping my bond with my good friends stronger.

8.       Studying harder in college.

9.       Exploring new possibilities.

10.     Keeping a healthy habit. 

Ten reasons why my life is beautiful

Many people would say that their life is ugly just because of a few ugly experiences, what they don't know is that there are still more countless things that make their life beautiful. That's why for me my life is beautiful because;

1.       I believe in God.

2.       I am still alive and kicking!

3.       I love my family and they love me.

4.       I have family to lean on in times of need.

5.       I am single and happy.

6.       I am a virgin!.

7.       I am surrounded with good friends .

8.       I am studying in college.

9.       I try to do new things .

10.   I am healthy at least for a lean guy like me.

Elements of a short story

The Aged Mother

Character:

Long, long ago there lived at the foot of the mountain a poor farmer and his aged, widowed mother. They owned a bit of land which supplied them with food, and their humble were peaceful andhappy.Shining was governed by a despotic leader who though a warrior, had a great and cowardly shrinking from anything suggestive of failing health and strength.

Setting:

The road was long and steep; then arrowed road was crossed and recrossed by many paths made by the hunters and woodcutters. In some place, they mingled in a confused puzzled, but he gave no heed. One path or another, it mattered not. On he went, climbing blindly upward – ever upward towards the high bare summit of what is known as Obatsuyama, the mountain of the “abandoning of aged”. The eyes of the old mother were not so dim but that they noted the reckless hastening from  one path to another, and her loving heart grew anxious.

Conflict:

The entire province was given strict orders to immediately put to death all aged people. Those were barbarous days, and the custom of abandoning old people to die was not common. The poor farmer loved his aged mother with tender reverence, and the order filled his heart with sorrow.

Plot:

Introduction:

Long, long ago there lived at the foot of the mountain a poor farmer and his aged, widowed mother. They owned a bit of land which supplied them with food, and their humble were peaceful and happy. Shining was governed by a despotic leader who though a warrior, had a great and cowardly shrinking from anything suggestive of failing health and strength.

Rising action :

The son’s surprised eyes looked back over the path, then at the poor old, shriveled hands all scratched and soiled by their work of love. His heart smote him and bowing to the grounds, he cried aloud: “oh, Honorable mother, thy kindness thrusts my heart! I will not leave thee. Together we will follow the path of twigs, and together we will die!”Once more he shouldered his burden (how light it seemed no) and hastened down the path,through the shadows and the moonlight, to the little hut in the valley. Beneath the kitchen floor was a walled closet for food, which was covered and hidden from view.

Climax:

There the son his mother,supplying her with everything needful and continually watching and fearing. Time passed, and he was beginning to feel safe when again the governor sent forth heralds bearing an unreasonable order, seemingly as a boast of his power. His demand was that his subject should present him with a rope of ashes. The entire province trembled with dread.

Falling action:

The order must be obeyed yet who in all shining could make a rope of ashes?One night, in great distress, the son whispered the news to his hidden mother. “Wait!” she said. “Iwill think. I will think” On the second day she told him what to do. “Make rope twisted straw,” she said. “Then stretch it upon a row of flat stones and burn it there on the windless night. ” He called the people together and did as she said and when the blaze and died, behold upon the stones with every twist and fiber showing perfectly. Lay a rope of whithead ashes.

Resolution:

The governor was pleased at the wit of the youth and praised greatly, but he demanded to know where he had obtained his wisdom. “Alas! Alas!” cried the farmer, “the truth must be told!” andwith deep bows he related his story. The governor listened and then meditated in silence. Finally he lifted his head. “Shining needs more than strength of youth, ” he said gravely. “Ah, that I should have forgotten the well-know saying, “with the crown of snow, there cometh a wisdom!” That very hour the cruel law was abolished, and custom drifted into as far a past that only legends remain.

Find a boyfriend: 15 tips from professional matchmakers

1. Be realistic. "If you look like Roseanne, don't fixate on finding a Tom Cruise look-alike," says Brooks. "I also tell women who seem to be on a money hunt—that is, looking exclusively for men with big bucks—they'll have to change their attitude if their goal is a long-term relationship. Men can sense right away if you're out for their wallet, not their personality." In the long run, the most priceless attributes you should want in a mate are not looks and/or money but a loving heart, dependable nature and commitment to you.

2. Be a hot mama, not a prospective mama. "Men have a radar for detecting women who are baby hungry," warns Christie Kelleher, director of the New York office of Kelleher & Associates, an upscale matchmaking service for successful professionals. Kelleher, whose service has brought together about 6,000 marriages in 19 years, adds, "He's thinking, 'Whoa—I don't even know your middle name, and I already know the colors you want to paint your kid's nursery.'" Your best bet: no baby talk!

3. Make dating a priority. Janis Spindel, the self-described "cupid in a Chanel suit" and president of the New York-based Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking service, suggests that clients approach finding the right man as they would a job hunt. The key is to always be prepared because you never know when or where you'll meet someone. Wear clothes that make you feel attractive and plan ahead for interesting conversation. "You also need to change your routine," adds Spindel, who in the last 10 years has brought together more than 300 marriages and 400 monogamous couples. "Don't get your newspaper delivered. You might meet someone at the newsstand."

4. Nix the ex talk. On the first few dates, Brooks advises her clients to excise the desire to tell the new man all about the previous boyfriend. If your ex was fabulous, your date will feel he can't measure up. But if you bash your ex too much, your date could think, Whoops—she might be talking about me that way in a few months! Similarly, you should be wary of a man who can't stop talking about his former paramour. If he's still hung up on her, his heart has no room for you.

5. Neurotics needn't apply. You both need to be emotionally healthy to forge a successful relationship, says Neil Clark Warren, Ph.D., who founded a cyber matchmaking service called eHarmony.com in 2000. For instance, it's not a good sign if you're in the relationship primarily because you're frightened of being alone. It's equally bad if your guy looks as longingly at the gin bottle as he does at you. Or if he's morbidly depressed. Don't fall into the codependent trap and think you can "heal" him. It's smarter to look for a man who doesn't need healing.

6. Mind your manners. Men are understandably appalled when their bright, attractive, funny date suddenly does something tacky like ripping a piece of bread in half and putting the other half back in the bread basket or applying lipstick at the table. "Men also find it gauche when the woman calls for the check," says Brooks. "The man wants to do the summoning of the waiter and the paying of the bill." Spindel also warns against a few more etiquette faux pas: "Be on time, shut off your cell phone, look him in the eye, not down at the floor. Don't ask him too many questions about his job. He'll think you're a gold digger." You don't need to be Emily Post, but if you display the sensitivity of a lamppost, don't be surprised if the first date is the last one.

7. Similarity breeds success. "This doesn't mean you've got to marry your clone. But when you're getting to know someone, ask yourself if you and he have the same core values," says Warren, also the author of Date...or Soul Mate? How to Know If Someone Is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less. "Think money, intelligence, lifestyle and sense of humor," he says. And think really hard if your major life goals mix well. Both of you need to agree on the merits or disadvantages of marriage, making babies and whether to aspire to living in a tree house or a penthouse. These are things that you can start finding out in as little as a date or two.

8. Present a challenge. "Let the guy know you like him, but don't take his initial interest as a signal to latch on to him right away," Kelleher suggests. She points out that "three dates do not a relationship make." We're not talking The Rules here—don't hesitate to return his call in a timely fashion. But don't build your social life around him (for example, keep your Friday night theater subscription with your friend Beth) and don't press him to talk about his "feelings." Do make it clear that while he's a welcome addition to your life, he is not the whole enchilada. This is all subject to change after you have been dating awhile and the relationship has become more serious.

9. Don't be a babbling brook. Sure, you've got a host of charming stories, but save some for the second date. "Men really want to occasionally get a word in edgewise," says Brooks. Women should pace themselves and think of about two to three great stories to tell on their date. But don't go overboard talking about yourself!

10.Find a boyfriend: 15 tips from professional matchmakers. "My male clients bemoan the lack of warmth that women project," says Kelleher. "Guys say many women clearly don't want their date to give them a hug or open the door." Lower your guard, flex those lips into a smile and be nice.

11. Be a girl. Leave your professional persona at the office. "My male clients also complain that women often come across as masculine—dressing in stiff suits and debating their date on everything from what wine to order to world affairs to who gets the check," says Kelleher. (Let him.) In other words: It's a date, not a boxing match.

12. Look beyond his good looks. Don't be dazzled by a handsome face and buff bod. Is this guy worthy of winning your heart? "How good is he at relationships? How does he treat his mother? How does he get along with siblings, cousins and friends?" asks Brooks. If the answer to those questions is not too well, take heed. Once he is confident of your affections, he might revert to type and treat you like everyone else he "cares" about.

13. Be mindful of that ole black magic. At first glance you felt more of an urge to hold his hand than jump his bones? That's not a terrible sign: Physical attraction can deepen as you really get to know and trust each other. But there must be an ember of initial attraction to build from. Without any chemistry, Warren says, you're better off as friends.

14. Hold out before having sex. Spindel is adamant that you should forego sex at least for a little while. The matchmaker feels that until your guy is ready to commit at least part of his soul, you're better off not committing your entire body. Her rationale: "Ideally you should wait until you've had the discussion about not seeing other people. That way you're sure he's operating more out of love than lust."

15. Go with the flow. The real key to making it as a couple, says Warren, is that both people are willing to compromise. If one or both partners must always have their way and are threatened by even small changes, trouble will soon be brewing. For example, if he suddenly has to work late on a night you were hoping to cook him dinner, be understanding of his need to be flexible and have him come over for coffee instead of the main course. Of course, he should be really sorry for the change in plans and should want to make it up to you.

From: http://www.today.com/health/find-boyfriend-15-tips-professional-matchmakers-I284121